What is the right relationship for you?

What would happen if you created the right relationship for you? By Susan Lazar Hart

Have you ever been in a relationship that wasn’t working? And how much time did you spend focusing on all the ways it didn’t work? In the process of that analysis, did you make you wrong and your partner wrong because you couldn’t get your relationship right?

Focusing on what is wrong always necessitates you judging you, based on what is supposed to be right, good, perfect and correct. And who decided what is the right relationship for you?

If your relationship could be different, would that create more possibilities for you and for those around you? Focusing on what doesn’t work will not create the changes required for you to have a different possibility.

Anger, hate, guilt and remorse will distract you from identifying what is working; it’s like putting on blinkers to possibility. And what else could you add to the relationship that would give you more choice?

When you are in a relationship that isn’t working, don’t be distracted by what isn’t, ask questions about what IS working. Susan Lazar Hart of ‘The Right Relationship For You’ says, “Be grateful for the ‘not-working.’ The not-working is simply the results you are getting based on the choices you have made. So, what else is possible?”

Susan has four questions that you can use to get clearer on your relationship and begin to create greater possibilities and choice. These questions will open you up to a greater level of awareness and from greater awareness you can choose differently. If you make different choices, will you get different results?

1. What awareness do I have?
2. What else can I add to this relationship?
3. How can I use this relationship to my advantage?
4. What contribution can I be that I haven’t been willing to be?

When you begin to get clear on what works for you, you start to generate your life and living from a different space. The more you step into your awareness, the more choice you have, which allows you to contribute more and begin creating the relationship that you always knew should be possible.

Susan Lazar Hart’s The Right Relationship For You empowers people in changing relationships that don’t work, into those that do. What would happen if you began creating the right relationship for you?


For more information contact the host (Michelle Edhouse) at
or email at gmedhouse@xtra.co.nz
Contact Susan directly at
phone: 5144673251
e-mail: slazarhart50@hotmail.com
Twitter: @SusanLazarHart
Facebook: www.facebook.com/susanlazarhart

Workshop dates:
A taster of Right Relationship for You: Illusion to Illumination
December 2 @ 1pm
Right Relationship for You™ Facilitators Class – 2+1
December 4 @ 9:30 am – 5pm
2-Day Workshop – Right Relationship For You™ in Australia
December 4-6 @ 9:30 am – 5pm



Vanessa Finnigan is the founder, editor, publisher of Holistic Bliss Magazine and she also offers multi-media whispering energy sessions. She has been a freelance writer for 16 years for magazines.

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