Sarah KingFreedom.
Dancing on the lips of many women.
Women in romantic relationships. Women who are single.
Freedom.
Many of my conversations with women start with… “Sarah – What’s it like?”
What is it like to be single? Co-parent? Go on dating apps? To go on a date? Not have to answer to anyone else? To really live your own life? What is it like to have freedom?
As a dating and relationship coach, all too often people think I’m here to help women write the “perfect” BIO, help choose the photos that highlight in the best light or fend off the fishing fanatics.
Ok, yes, this will come up in session at some point. But the real work… is the soul work. Where we get into the real authentic, sometimes confronting truth of why is your soul yearning for freedom?
If you are currently in a relationship and you are craving freedom, you have a lack of one of the most foundational aspects of being a human. We come into this world with free choice. With freedom.
Why are so many women giving their freedom up in marriage, partnership, even dating.
Why don’t we even realise?
Why is it such a struggle to take it back?
If you have a niggle that freedom is what you need. IT is what you need.
I won’t sugar coat it, acknowledging a lack of freedom comes with a tower moment. Everything burns to the ground. From the ashes you take back your freedom. You create new beauty in the world. You get to rediscover your soul’s truth. The truth that leads your heart. You get to grow love that doesn’t survive only as transaction dependant on your surrender of your power, your persona or your soul.
Freedom is a choice that you make. The longer you wait, the bigger that tower moment will be.
Trust me, I was on my knees. The choices I had made through my life had left me having a 3-way conversation between my soul, my ego and my human. It was ugly. It was confrontational. My human was willing to continue to sacrifice all of my freedom. But my soul had other plans.
This has been an ongoing lesson for me… even in dating… I am always being brought back to how healthy is my freedom. I now do a health check.
Is the person I am spending my time with respectful of my sovereign choices?
Is the value I have reflected for the highest regard?
Am I even allowing myself to think about how my choices will influence our relationship and hold myself back when I know that it is a soul calling?
It’s time to stop accepting that giving away our freedom is just part of being in a relationship. It’s time rewrite the past, our future generations are counting on us to step forward as the heart led, soulful Empress’ that we are here to be.
Not thinking about freedom but free.
Book a Heart & Soul Session with Sarah. Enjoy 90 mins of deep, soulful guidance to reconnect with your truth and power. $222 for June – Book via: https://empressnation.au/
And to purchase Sarah’s enlightening book, Many Hearts please go to: https://linktr.ee/Empress_Nation_
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