What is Your Lover Archetype? By Rebecca-Lee

What it means to be the Peacemaker in Love

As a lover of peace and harmony, the Peacemaker Lover is someone who operates from their heart charka. If you love predominantly from your heart chakra (remember the different lover archetypes have a dominant chakra and love in different ways), as a heart-based lover you seek harmony in all relationships.

If you undertake the Lover Archetype survey on my website to help you determine what your patterns are in love and how you navigate them, and you come out as the heart-based Peacemaker Lover, then you need people in your life more than any other lover.

If you do not have people in your life, you will feel very down and alone and even depressed. Unfortunately for a lot of you, you have loved so hard in your life, and drawn to people that need love, but not yet capable of giving it, so many of you have been very hurt and even given up on love. If this is the case you have put your walls up to protect your big, beautiful world, and mostly retreated from the world. That is the downside and the worst-case scenario of the Peacemaker Lover’s journey.

Connecting through the Heart

It is important that you are in relationship with someone who loves being around people as much as you do. Being part of a family or a community is crucial to your well-being. The people you spend most of your time with are extremely important to you – both as an individual and as a couple.

Your biggest hurdle in love is to learn that you do not have to sacrifice yourself and your needs to be loved. You do not need to constantly give, and please others to be loved. You deserve to be loved, simply just for being you.

Navigating your Love Blocks

Grief, loss, and heartache could certainly be encountered on your journey. Make sure you consciously look at what you have lost; how you have grieved and where you are in the grief process. Many of you may not have fully acknowledged or grieved what you have lost, and you will need to work with that so you can open to give and receive love and find joy in your life. If you have not fully processed all your losses in life, you will tend to cut yourself off from life and people. You are a social person at heart, and you DO need people. You are also here to spread light to others. If your grief and loss is unhealed you will find yourself shutting yourself off from the world which is disastrous for you and the world.

When it comes to dating, when your heart has not fully healed, you run the risk of attracting more people that need healing. You will not be vibrating high enough to deal with this or recognise that this is not the best potential lover for you.

The health of your intimate relationship depends on your ability to have harmony within yourself. You are a very deep being – there are many different layers and dimensions to you. For you to find, sustain and have success in love, it is essential that you have a very deep connection with and love for yourself. When you do this, you will be able to establish and maintain harmony with those around you.

Your relationship with your partner must be one in where your partner will understand and nurture the depth of your heart. You need someone who is kind, compassionate and patient. However, you will need someone who can lighten you up and get you out and have some fun, especially when you are taking yourself and life too seriously or falling into a dark hole.

Clearing the Path with the Unlock Your Love BlocksÒ

Process and let go of old grief, loss and hurt from the past so that your heart can be free to cultivate a relationship that is loving and social. Do not get bogged down with too many problems, worries’ and hurts of other people. Learn the difference between being supportive and being a rescuer. Focusing on other people’s problems could distract you from your own. Ensure you take care of yourself first before you step out to help others.

The heart chakra is your power centre. It is crucial that you be honest with yourself about how you feel. Do not suppress your feelings or pretend that you are fine when you are not.

If you would like to work more on unlocking and clearing these issues in the heart chakra and strengthening your capacity as a peace-loving social lover, then look at undertaking Key 1 in the Unlock Your Love Blocks program.

If you would like to find out what your strongest Lover Archetype is, you can take the survey at my website – www.rebecca-lee.com