How Much Is Your Energy In ‘Striving’? by Fiona Robertson

How Much Is Your Energy In ‘Striving’ To Earn Income From Your Business? FLIP That to ‘Allow’ God, Universe & Source.   God Can Pay Your Bills

There was a time I genuinely thought I was doing everything “right” in my business.

I’d learned the strategies. I followed the formulas. I hustled with so much heart.
Every offer I created had a purpose. Every post had a plan. I was crafting the words and doing all the things that successful entrepreneurs are taught to do. But something clearly wasn’t right…

Beneath all of it—was striving.
That sticky, tight, heavy, constricted feeling that was coming from a slightly desperate energy of trying— to prove, to impress, to be taken seriously, to be successful enough, spiritual enough, worthy enough. I felt the effort of the push in my body, struggling to get something up a steep hill all alone.

And the scariest part?
That energy was stopping everything. It was felt by everyone I wanted to attract and was actually repelling everything and everyone I wanted. My frequency was force and survival not surrendered to a source bigger than me. But I couldn’t see it yet.

No matter how good my offers were or how consistently I showed up, how low the price, there was a subtle tension being felt that blocked the flow I desired. 

I knew something was up and this was a sign that had these huge consequences, because Sales slowed. Engagement dropped. Launches flopped. And eventually, so did I.

I just couldn’t reach that part of me I needed to connect to. The part in me that no other action was reaching and it wasn’t effort or strategy it was 100% me.

I spent all of my savings, my pension, my inheritance, reinvesting in the next program, and next course chasing a breakthrough, pushing to “make it work.” Always believing the next strategy will save me, this time it will work and bring success and money will flow. I was optimistic and believed thoroughly in what I sold.
In the back of my head somewhere I also genuinely feared: What if this never clicks? What if I was wrong? What if it all falls apart? And yet could not stop what I was called to do and bring about my business.

And I was knocked sideways. I saw the one who was all alone in this, the one who always had to be responsible, fiercely independent, and determined to be the provider for my family. 

Always feeling there’s more I can do and hadn’t yet hit the jackpot, I wasn’t good enough—but with all the doing I was striving to accomplish in this world I had missed the point. I was not alone. I had help that I had not called on.

At some point in my career striving and hard work had worked really well for me, just as Law of Attraction, learning to be the creator my own reality and manifesting had brought great rewards, but I had grown past with the work I had done of being alone in all of this and my frequency was asking to rise again and I was being called to the elevated and next level of my Soul.

The way I was operating wasn’t aligned anymore. I didn’t even realise I had outgrown the methods I was chasing for success. Until the moment I got the guidance to surrender to a higher self. I was so scared to stop, terrified to change and not be the one in control. All I knew was striving to survive. Deep down I knew it was the next phase of my soul journey so I let go.

The Day I Let Go

I reached a breaking point where I had no more energy to push, no money to keep fixing things, and no trust left in the formulas. I saw and felt the constant push and striving energy running in me. 

It was either keep fighting and focusing – or surrender. Hand it over to something bigger than me and trust.

And in the quiet, exhausted moments that followed, I began to recognise the nudge I’d been avoiding:
“Stop striving. Start listening. Feel the freedom as your peace”

I realised I had to switch to something rather radical without a teacher.
The Spirit Within My business delivered to me The Truth – Marketing & Selling WithThe Elevated & Beautiful Surrendered Soul.

It was terrifying. A huge gap emerged in the empty nothingness of all the not doing. It felt like leaping off a cliff with no net.
I had to be ruthlessly unapologetic about who I really was, what I really offered, and how I really felt.
No polish. No posturing. Just truth.

The First Week of Soul-Led Selling

In the first week of doing nothing and telling myself a new story—my real story—I felt a rolling shift. An ease and grace surround me as I surrendered to My Soul and Source Guidance
The energy changed. The responses changed. I changed and saw as my Soul saw every situation.

I spoke as me, not a brand.
I began seeing signs of guidance to offer what truly lit me up—not what I thought people wanted or similar formulas to what was out there.
I stopped striving and asked “What does my Soul want?”
I stopped trying to be “the one who fixes it all” and let my soul speak for herself.

And the wild thing?
I received evidence of it working. Like a reward of being fully me.

First I noticed that several problems just went away, I got offered a fantastic price for something I was selling and got four times as much as I expected. A negotiation that had been stuck in for 2 years resolved itself overnight, and I was free from the trapped situation I had been in, I felt free and supported.

Secondly I felt at ease and all of my conversations for business and relationships were easy. There was no force or need which I felt was beautifully new. Then prospective clients appeared in response to my frequency and just asked to work with me, one after the other and I’d not advertised or even posted a new program.
Next, opportunities opened for me like invitations to podcasts, new summits and my Soul was orchestrating my life for me. She provided the money to pay my bills and cleared stagnant situations out of the way with grace and ease.
Relationships fell away that were from effort or proving myself which was a really good thing and money flowed again from various directions that I’d never considered before—not from effort, but from frequency. My frequency. The only person who had changed was me. I’d changed my frequency by becoming who and what I am. In truth I am the unfathomable beauty of me as Source. Once I knew and felt that everything shifted.  My inside world created my outside world.

The Lesson I Couldn’t See Until I Surrendered

I see now what Spirit was trying to teach me the whole time:

It’s not about what you do. It’s about who and what you are.
It’s not your hustle that makes it happen. It’s your energy. Your truth. Your Soul.

I had to lose the need to prove in order to remember my unapologetically radiant power.
I had to let go of control to receive what had been waiting for me all along.
I had to stop doing just to try to survive—and start being who and what I really was. 

That was the weirdest revelation to me to discover who and what I am and elevate myself into the frequency that was there at the depths of me all along. I had thought for the longest time that I just needed to be happier, raise my energy and keep it there, and even that as a spiritual practice was all from force and effort. I soon saw that I had been just playing far far too small for my Soul. 

Because my frequency—the one I’d been afraid to trust would work—was what had created everything.

If You’re There Too…

If you’re standing where I was—tired, scared, over thinking, over doing, doing “all the right things” but getting nowhere—please hear this:

You are not broken.
You are not failing.
You are simply being called to elevate and operate from Soul as your guide which is rather different than you could ever have imagined.

To shift into your true frequency.
To know exactly who and what you are

To sell yourself from your soul.
To create from your essence.

Let your Soul lead the way and run the show

And let your energy—not your effort—do the work.

Because when you do… everything begins to flow towards you and you finally can have your way with the world.

???? My Invitation to You

What if the path forward isn’t to do more—but to trust deeper?
What if you allow your soul to lead you to receive in ways your mind can’t yet imagine?

Here’s your invitation:
The Frequency Reset: A Free Transmission + Activation Journey ( recorded )

You’ve carried enough. Let the God, Universe Source (G.U.S) take over. Listen to this frequency reset whenever you start to push.

The purpose is to feel the energetic shift from “I have to do it all” to “I am fully supported.”

 What this looks like:

  • Short guided activation
  • Audio journey: “Letting GUS Pay the Bills”
  • Optional journal prompts to let the message really land and be absorbed

Collect Your Free Frequency Reset https://sites.google.com/view/let-god-pay-your-bills/home

Fiona Robertson

Fiona is an author and business whisperer who teaches people how to tune into the spirit of their business, to know what decisions, direction and drive they need- as it guides and tells them.

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