Pink is my least favourite colour. Too soft, too stereotyped. But since 2015, I’ve embraced Pink October with open arms.
Ten years ago, I received a diagnosis that changed everything – including my avoiding pink at all costs. Breast cancer. But instead of turning this into a battle to be fought, I saw it as an open door—inviting me to remember who I truly was beneath the masks, expectations, and societal scripts. That diagnosis didn’t just change my body. It invited me to trust myself fully.
Throughout the treatment chaos, I remembered that my intuition is my internal compass. I intentionally choose it to make decisions. I subsequently stayed flat after my mastectomy—not out of pure defiance, but clarity. I didn’t want to reconstruct what was removed. I wanted to reconstruct my life. That decision was a simple act of self-trust, guided by the intuitive quiet nudges I’d long ignored.
After that choice, everything shifted. It was the catalyst for a decade, so far, of unapologetic empowerment. I stopped asking for permission and started asking better questions: What do I want? What does my soul want today? What feels aligned? What honours my body, my mind, my spirit?
I started truly listening to my soul’s truth, and the answers led me to extraordinary places. I published my first book, co-authored an international bestseller, and launched my writing and mentoring business—Elegant Rebel®. I created my first oracle deck, with another one simmering in the creative cauldron. I discovered I’d been neurosparkly all my life—a revelation from additional cancer surgery, inviting menopause into my world.
I’ve embraced movement and exercise physiology as part of my recovery. I got my first tattoo—between my shoulder blades, reflecting my scars and symbolising transformation. I’ve danced through heartbreak, romance, and rediscovery—proving that boobs are not required for love, joy, or wild adventure.
Most powerfully, I stopped hiding. I embraced my ‘not-normal.’ Turns out, not fitting in is exactly how I fit into my life.
And this was all possible because breast cancer re-ignited my trust in my inner knowing. Of course, it wasn’t all poetic metaphors. There were foot-stomping moments, rib-popping pain, and curious questions from strangers. But I learned that being truly seen isn’t scary when it’s done in your own voice.
Breast cancer gifted me my voice to stand tall. Elegantly. Rebelliously. And to support others in reconnecting with their inner knowing, asking their questions and finding their own voice. Especially those of us who are neurodivergent, highly sensitive souls. Our stories matter. Our experience is undeniable.
And pink? It’s no longer a colour I intentionally avoid. It too is a symbol of transformation. From dusty rose to hot pink, it’s dynamic, rebellious, and impossible to box in—just like us Elegant Rebels.
So if something stirred while reading this, I hope it was your own soul nudge. Your elegant rebellion. Your truth.
Because trauma changes us. But so does courage. So does intuition. And so does the moment we choose to honour our whole selves—body, mind, and soul.
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