Healing Inherited Stories
Each of us is born into a story that is already being told and has been for generations. Many of us come through and are bound to certain stories and people of the past. I refer to this as family karma as there is a repeating pattern that is continuing on through you. It is a script that perhaps limits us or distorts our perceptions of who we are, where we are from, what we can and can not do, and/or what we think about the world and our place in it. We are all born into a story and some of us are more affected by it than others or feel a “calling” to heal and / or change it. Healing with the Ancestors gives you the opportunity to examine the story you have been born into and to ask yourself if you wish to remain loyal to that story and the role you are playing, or if you need to re-write the script.
A New Paradigm of Healing and Self Development
I believe that how well and how healthy are ancestors are deeply affects the quality of our life today. On the journey of healing we are often focused on what is wrong or what went wrong and how that affects us negatively in our life. Of course, we need to look at this, however, during my journey in family healing and putting together my own healing modality combining family constellation, mediumship and shamanic ideologies, I found that not only did I begin to see harmful and destructive ancestors in a different light, but also that there were so many ancestors I was unfamiliar with who stepped forward who had so much light and wisdom to offer me. Whilst my direct generations above me were very dysfunctional, this was not the make up of my entire family system. In fact, I found I had some really interesting, powerful and different ancestors behind me that were willing to support me and offer me a different view. This helped tremendously when it came to healing the shame, anger and the confusion I felt around where and who I had come from.
It is so important to heal the pain but also look for the light both within and around us. It is from this point we can begin to create and project ourselves into the world in new light and heal the patterns we have been repeating that have stemmed from our perspective of being trapped in our inherited stories.
Next month I will talk more about what happens when we are “entangled” with an ancestor and share more around the orders of love that are imperative for improving your ability to receive not only love but also abundance in your lifetime.
I will be offering an on-line program for Healing with your Ancestors for the first time this year. Applications will open soon. I will also be hosting an in-person workshop on 22nd and 23rd May on the Sunshine Coast, Queensland, Australia (Noosa Hinterland). Bookings will open shortly.
If you would like to work with me personally in Healing with the Ancestors you can contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org and we will arrange your sessions.