I know the journey of struggling with your Mum. My Mum and I have had a pretty rocky relationship over my lifetime. I am her first born and she had me when she was only 17. Very young where she was still, in hindsight, a baby herself (my daughter is 16 and I just couldn’t imagine her having the responsibilities of having a child and how that would seriously affect her and her life). So, my Mum, whilst she said she was happy to have me, can’t have had it easy having a child so young.
We have had our ups and downs and times where we have had years of no contact because, at the time, it was the only thing I felt I could do to care for myself. However today whilst I always feel our relationship is underlyingly fragile, we have contact and we do talk. There would have been times over the years where I never thought that would be possible. But yet, here we are. It has taken a lot of work; big deep soul work; work that many people may not have the courage or strength to work through and that is ok too.
When you think about yourself as a baby, who is the most important person in your world? Your mother. Everything about your mother, what she does and how she is affects your survival. As babies and young ones, we are completely reliant on our mothers to take care of us in order for us to survive. As a child all we can do is receive, which the mother gives and that is how it should be.
However, as many of you know, life is not always like that for everyone. Many mothers have had issues, often systemic issues that have come down through the generations that have affected their capacity to be there for their children. This has long-term effects on the child.
Everything in our life is based on soul prints and energies. In order to receive in life will largely depend on whether we could receive from our mother and, as I am about to share with you, if you can receive your mother and who she is. The latter is extremely difficult for many who have been deeply hurt, abused, abandoned or rejected by their mother.
Bare with me.
Our mother’s are the key to our abundance. If you are blocked in your life in the abundance arena, I wonder if you really felt into it deeply, if you have issues around your mother and receiving from her? She might not have anything to give, I understand that. But can you receive that she is your mother and that it is so for perhaps very particular reasons your soul needed this for this life time? Can you “take her in”? This does not condone any bad behaviour or abuse by the way. She is who she is, and she has done what she has done. Nothing is changing that.
If you would like to courageously step on to this path visit Rebecca-Lee’s website at www.rebecca-lee.com to see about private Unlock Your Love Blocks’ sessions with her, her Coaches, or enrol in one of the upcoming training modules to enter into this deep soul work.